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A guide to help parents introduce their new baby to the family pet has been developed by a husband and wife vet science team.
By Motherpedia
Date: March 06 2013
Tags: baby, pregnancy, dog,
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Just as mums and dads-to-be attend parenting classes, dogs also need help adapting to life with a new baby said veterinarian Dr Lewis Kirkham.

Dr Kirkham and his wife Debra who works at the University of Melbourne’s Vet Hospital have developed the book Tell Your Dog You’re Pregnant so that families can prepare their dog for the noises and household changes that a new baby brings, and hopefully build a strong bond between dog and baby.

The guide is available in print, ebook for Kindle, Ipad or other eReaders.

The birth of his two daughters ignited Dr Kirkham’s passion in educating expectant parents about the smooth transition from a child-free, dog owning family to a larger family with a new baby.

“As a vet I am very interested in understanding the bond between owners and their pets, so this prompted us to develop a guide to assist in bonding between the dog and a newborn baby,” Dr Kirkham said.

“To many couples the dog is their ‘fur’ child and there are a lot of changes that will occur when a human baby arrives. Preparing the dog early for these changes can help prevent behavioural issues such as; house-soiling, aggression, destruction and attention-seeking.”

After graduating from the University of Melbourne as a vet, Dr Kirkham gained further qualifications in animal behaviour and developed the book Tell Your Dog You’re Pregnant with his wife in his spare time.

The book provides a step by step guide to prepare a dog for a baby in the house including the latest in animal behavioural psychology to help owners introduce their baby to their pet, read and interpret a dog’s body language and adjust the household to keep the dog calm.

 Dr Kirkham has provided advice to many dog owning couples who were expecting a baby and found there was a lack of good quality baby and toy noises available.

“When our first daughter was born we recorded some of her sounds and then expanded and remastered these sounds to create a CD, which accompanies the book, to familiarize dogs with a range of baby sounds, including squeaky toys, crying, sneezing, giggling and bath splashing,” Debra Kirkham said.

The book also includes information on recognising a dog’s warning signs if it is not adapting to the new family structure and to know when to seek professional assistance for behavioural problems.

Here are Lewis' and Debra's top tips.

Before baby is born:
1. Start preparations early

2. Play different types of baby sounds to your dog

3. Set-up realistic routines

4. Create a safe, secure area for your dog

5. Sit, stay, come, drop it and got to your mat/bed

6. Seek professional help if needed

After baby is born:
1. Take 1st introductions slowly

2. Make fun things happen for your dog when your baby is present

3. Supervise and separate

4. Stick to your routines.

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You can purchase a copy of Tell Your Dog You're Pregnant here.

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